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Cornelia (Connie) O'Marra, LCSW

  • Experience24 years
  • LocationNew Mexico
  • Focus areasStress and Anxiety, Addictions, and Trauma and abuse
  • Therapy approachesInternal Family Systems and Attachment-Based Therapy
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About Cornelia

Cornelia (Connie) O'Marra is a licensed clinical social worker with 24 years of experience helping people navigate stress, anxiety, trauma, grief, depression, addictions, relationship and family challenges, and a wide range of mood and coping concerns.

Background and approach

She brings a trauma-informed, culturally aware perspective and draws on practical strategies to help clients identify solutions that fit their lives. Connie has worked with Native and Hispanic communities and is an enrolled Potawatomi tribal member, and she also offers training to groups and communities focused on building resilience after trauma.

Her practice emphasizes collaboration and clarity, using approaches such as Internal Family Systems, attachment-oriented methods, client-centered work, cognitive-behavioral strategies, and EMDR where appropriate. Clients can expect a guiding presence that focuses on trust, empowerment, and culturally respectful care while exploring options for change.

Connie aims to make the counseling process comfortable and accessible so people can develop tools for coping with life transitions, improving relationships, and addressing issues like self-esteem, eating and sleeping concerns, anger, and compassion fatigue.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Care

Connie integrates Internal Family Systems, attachment-based work, and client-centered methods to help people explore internal dynamics and improve relationships. Internal Family Systems (IFS) involves noticing and dialoguing with different parts of the self to reduce internal conflict and promote healing, which can be useful for trauma reactions, self-criticism, and chronic anxiety. Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on patterns of connection and helps clients understand how early relationships influence current emotional responses and relationship dynamics, supporting work around intimacy, abandonment, and trust. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes empathy, active listening, and collaboration so clients lead the pace and priorities of change.

Finding the right therapeutic approach is part of the work itself. Connie works collaboratively with each person to identify which methods fit their needs, goals, and preferences, and may combine techniques to tailor a plan that feels practical and respectful of cultural background and life context.

Online therapy options include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to offer flexibility for differing schedules and comfort levels. These formats can make it easier to maintain continuity of care, access support from home, and try different modalities of interaction while working toward concrete goals.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?
Cornelia focuses on a broad range of concerns including stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, grief, depression, relationship and family issues, intimacy-related matters, eating and sleeping problems, anger, self-esteem, bipolar and mood disorders, and coping with life changes.
What is her therapeutic style and approach?
Her style is collaborative and trauma-informed, combining client-centered support with structured methods like cognitive-behavioral techniques and solution-focused work to help clients find practical pathways forward.
How much experience does she have?
She brings 24 years of clinical experience working with individuals and families in community and clinical settings, and also provides training to groups on resilience after trauma.
What are her credentials and where is she based?
She is a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) practicing in New Mexico and holds the credential NM LCSW C-08916 and ID LCSW LCSW-640.
Does she offer services in other languages or to international clients?
Services are offered in English only, and she is not currently accepting international clients.
Which session formats are available?
Sessions can be conducted via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to accommodate different needs and preferences.
How are fees and scheduling handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time; specific timing is arranged according to the therapist's availability.
What steps are involved to begin therapy?
To get started, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMood disordersPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Motivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

24+ years

Licensed

Idaho, New Mexico

Languages

English