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Mary Blair, LPC

  • Experience18 years
  • LocationSouth Dakota
  • Focus areasRelationship, Grief, and Self esteem
  • Therapy approachesInternal Family Systems and Client-Centered Therapy
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About Mary

Mary Blair is a licensed professional counselor (LPC) in South Dakota with 18 years of clinical experience that spans psychotherapy, chaplaincy in hospice and hospital settings, and consultation.

Background and approach

She has supported people facing grief and loss, major life transitions, anxiety, depression, trauma histories, parenting challenges, and relationship concerns, bringing a broad clinical background to each case. Her practice integrates several therapeutic orientations, drawing especially on Internal Family Systems (IFS), psychodynamic perspectives, and somatic methods alongside a client-centered stance.

Mary emphasizes a holistic approach that attends to mind, body, and spirit as each person defines those terms, and she invites clients to take an active role in shaping the work. Therapy with her weaves brain-body awareness and reflective exploration so clients can focus on what matters most in each session.

Mary aims to collaborate with clients toward practical, meaningful change while honoring individual pace and priorities. She offers flexible online formats and frames the process as a shared journey of self-discovery and healing.

Integrating Internal Work and Somatic Awareness Online

Mary uses Internal Family Systems (IFS) to help clients recognize and relate to the different parts of themselves, fostering internal cooperation and greater self-leadership; this approach can be helpful for issues like trauma, relationship patterns, and emotional overwhelm. She also incorporates somatic therapy which pays attention to bodily sensations and movement as a way to process stress, trauma, and chronic tension, offering tools to regulate the nervous system and increase present-moment awareness. Additionally, her client-centered orientation emphasizes listening and collaboration so the therapeutic path reflects each person's values and goals.

Determining the right combination of methods is part of the work itself, and Mary approaches that decision collaboratively. She will explore a client’s needs, goals, and preferences and suggest ways to blend IFS, somatic, mindfulness, or psychodynamic elements so the plan fits the person rather than imposing a single technique.

Online therapy through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging gives flexibility for scheduling and communication style. These formats make it possible to maintain continuity of care from different locations and to choose the mode of interaction that feels most comfortable, supporting regular practice and steady progress over time.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?
She works with a wide range of issues including relationship struggles, grief and loss, self-esteem, stress and anxiety, trauma and abuse, eating concerns, parenting and career difficulties, depression, and compassion fatigue.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style is integrative and client-centered, combining IFS, psychodynamic, and somatic approaches with mindfulness to attend to thoughts, feelings, and bodily experience.
What is her clinical background and experience?
She has practiced for 18 years across psychotherapy, hospice and hospital chaplaincy, and consulting roles, bringing that range of experience into clinical work.
What credentials and location are on record?
She holds the credential LPC with licence SD LPC LPC20544 and is based in South Dakota.
Which languages are available for sessions and is international work offered?
Sessions are conducted in English, and she is not currently accepting international clients.
What session formats does she provide?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to accommodate different communication preferences.
How are costs and billing handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the steps to begin working with her?
Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesCareer difficultiesDepressionCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesCancerCo-morbidityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

18+ years

Licensed

South Dakota

Languages

English